The weak can never forgive . Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong . Understand that no matter how many times you say you're sorry it wont wash away all the pain and hurt you caused and the tears you made me cry . It takes a strong person to say sorry , and an ever stronger person to forgive . The things two people do to each other they remember . If they stay together , it's not because they forget ; it's because they forgive . The truth is , unless you let go , unless you forgive yourself , unless you forgive the situation , unless you realize that the situation is over , you cannot move forward .
Forgiveness is not about forgetting . It is about letting go of another person's throat . . Forgiveness does not create a relationship . Unless people speak the truth about what they have done and change their mind and behavior , a relationship of trust is not possible . When you forgive someone you certainly release them from judgment , but without true change , no real relationship can be established . . Forgiveness in no way requires that you trust the one you forgive . But should they finally confess and repent , you will discover a miracle in your own heart that allows you to reach out and begin to build between you a bridge of reconciliation . . Forgiveness does not excuse anything . . You may have to declare your forgiveness a hundred times the first day and the second day , but the third day will be less and each day after , until one day you will realize that you have forgiven completely . And then one day you will pray for his wholeness :)
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